無緣無故給一個(不是屬於我的)客人在電話上不禮貌對待,心情當刻跌進谷底,特別最近心情已經非常fragile,傷心之際,想起前上司曾經說我是個resilient 的人。
一個人能擁有復原性,其實只是環境逼成,人生滿是錯折,總不成一遇到打擊就哭。最快但未必最好的方法就是立即爬起來,若無其事繼續走。也如果,打擊你的是無關痛癢的人,更不應該介懷,還是快點放下吧。
Sometimes we may face a sudden strike in daily life, the quickest but may not be the best way to recover is to stand up and walk immediately. If the one who hits / hurts you are irrelevant, just forget it and do not care much about it. My time and heart should not be spent on this.
另:復原力(蔡東豪)
http://nextplus.nextmedia.com/news/spot/20150625/217810
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